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Psychologist's ADVICE FOR PARENTS / child in the hospital: how to behave with the child in the hospital

Child in hospital

1. The child is afraid of the unknown. Never deceive a child.

No need to hide from him that You go to the clinic for an appointment. Otherwise the kid will think that if You hadn't have told him about it, then, with him going to do something terrible. Children's imagination can paint a horrifying picture of the upcoming inspections which is better to tell the details of the baby, how and what will happen with him in the clinic. If he should get a vaccination or blood - what he may be hurt, but not for long.

2. Your confidence and peace of mind will be passed to your son or daughter.

Deny yourself installation: "Hospital - pain, fear, danger". Replace it with "Hospital - aid, relief, recovery". Build a positive attitude, how to improve health and to the work of doctors.

3. In any case, do not fight with the fear of a child with violence! Some parents believe that to pounce for the whole family at the baby, who writhes and screams; "neutralize" kicking his arms and legs; will grab your head and force them to infuse in mouth medicine is the only way to cure the child. Undoubtedly, you will succeed, but not more than once. Remember that this is violence, and violence in the treatment - worst option, as it will only exacerbate children's fears.

4. Try to draw for kid a positive image of the doctor.

Well must help the fairy tale "the doctor", after the kids are usually imbued with respect for the doctor who helped the small animals. Look for other books or cartoons, in which a caring doctor helps his little patients. As an option - you can buy the kid a set of doctors. This can be as a toy and a real, self-assembled kit: a stethoscope, a syringe without a needle, pipette, cotton wool, bandage.

5. Explain to your child why you need to take medications, undergo the procedure, go to see a doctor.

The kids can not understand why they need to be treated. Usually parents say it is "the way"or "to be healthy". Such options are not suitable. Explain why and how you need to get rid of the disease that is bothering Your child. Tell a tale about ill little Bunny (the elephant, kitten etc) and that has cured due to the procedure that you want to do. What fun would be Your tale, the better!

6. In any case, not to accustom the child to the realization that the tablet is a sweetie, and if the child will eat, he will be fine.

7. Do not force your child to be brave, not afraid procedures. If Your child told You about their fears, do not force him to "be brave" or "good boy". Explain to him that fear is normal, but you need to be and you always will support him. If the baby will know that he can cry from fear or pain, and it will not be trogan or punished - it will be much easier to move the injection or inspection of the ears or neck.

8. Do not compare the child with other kids.

The child understands that there are children who don't cry and not afraid of saying it in public, you just multiply the fear of the child will increase his indecision and self-doubt.

9. Not sappinia baby!

Intimidation you will not achieve anything, will only make matters worse and the child will not only get rid of existing fears, but also acquire new ones. Moreover, your intimidation unfounded - injections child, but the doctor cannot prescribe, in the hospital you will not leave... Be honest, so the child will be easier to understand you.

10. Not convince him that he is to blame for their illness, injury, etc.

This way you will strengthen the sense of guilt and fear, the consequence of which may be undesirable psychological complications. Of course, there are situations when it is important to discuss with your child how his misconduct was the cause of the disease. But it is very important that the result of your conversation was not guilt, and understanding cause-and-effect relationship between abnormal behavior and disease.

11. Talk with your child about what is happening.

Each time explain what happened and what might happen to the child. Do not decommission its misunderstanding of age, Any kid can understand speech mother is the closest person: and in a year or two and at the age of seven the child understands and trusts the mother, who communicates with him on equal terms. Also be sure to talk with your child after discharge of what he experienced. Praise him for his patience. Accept all his fears and complaints, will agree with him and rejoice in how doctors helped him become healthy.

The most important thing for a child is Your care and love.

Errors in speech moms!
  • Don't cry! Will cry, you will be more shots to put!
  • Eat well! Would be bad to eat, I'll leave you here, and the home will be gone! (injections will be asked to supply, to the doctor lead ...)
  • Will behave in a way that you never from the hospital will not be discharged!
  • No, you will not do this procedure, Looky there! (at this time, suddenly the child is given a shot or make another painful manipulation)
  • Well, don't cry! Oh, those doctors, they would only shots to put!
  • What are you crying! Look no one is crying, you're the only one here crying!
  • Don't cry, and then go on procedure from another aunt!

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